The Power of Encouragment

 

I keep this verse in our kitchen as a reminder of the power of kind words. I also put it on the ‘front page’ of my blog for the same reason.

Encouraging each other is a simple way to influence how we see ourselves and what we might accomplish. A bit of reassurance might inspire a young woman to see herself as a valuable person who can make a positive difference in her community. Also, our encouraging words let a friend know we have confidence in him, which may help him have more confidence in himself.

Our words – spoken and written -- can build people up. They can instill hope and calm in the midst of chaos. When we encourage a coworker who’s struggling, our support lightens his load; it might make the difference between him giving up and persevering. Our words can also encourage a friend who realizes it’s time to try a new approach or move on to a different path altogether. Kind words assure her that we’re glad she’s our friend no matter what happens.

Encouragement is different from praise in that encouragement places the spotlight on the recipient instead of the speaker. It's more effective than praise, especially when talking to children. For example, notice the difference between “You worked hard on that!” and “I like what you did!” The first example points to the recipient and their effort; the second focuses on the speaker and what the speaker thinks of it.

“Encourage one another and build one another up.” – 1 Thessalonians 5:11

When you see someone searching, or struggling, or making an effort, try to shine the spotlight on them. Let them see – and believe -- the value of themselves and their efforts.

 “Let my words build up the people around me, Lord.”

 

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